I want my Mojo back!
by Rick Harrison
Earlier this week, we were feeling flat and uninspired. We looked at what was going on, why were we “down in the dumps” and we realised that we’d lost sight of our WHY and had gotten immersed in the HOW and WHAT.
Sometimes we get bogged down in the “doing” of life and our “to do” list seems to be a never-ending list of tasks for which there is just never enough time. What is usually “play” becomes toil. These are the steps to restoring your mojo!!!
1. Validate your feelings. Losing our mojo happens. It doesn’t mean we are inferior beings – it just
means we’ve lost connection with our WHY.
2. Get in touch with your WHY again. Why do you want a soulmate relationship? What will that mean for you and your family? Allow yourself to feel the emotion of having a delicious relationship.
3. Get Real. It’s easy to get resigned and settle for life how it is. In order to change our condition, we must first acknowledge our reality. Tell the truth to yourself about where you’re at where you want to be. Then take baby steps towards where you want to be and feel the mojo surging back into you.
4. Have Faith and Be patient. Everyone’s future is uncertain, yet the ones who succeed are the ones who hold their faith. The pitfall is to become impatient. When this happens, our emotions get in the way of our common sense and we can self-sabotage by not doing what we know to do. Hold strong by believing “who you’re looking for is looking for you”.
5. Write down the beliefs, the things deep in your heart that you know to be true and which gives you support when you’ve lost your mojo and are feeling flat and uninspired.
We believe that our greatest work is still ahead of us. We know that we will always be together and our families will always love us. We believe these things to be true and they provide a resurgence for our mojo when we feel our souls begin to grow tired and falter.
6. Let go of Resisting what you don’t like. Say yes to what is and let go of trying to control your life and make the most of what life throws at you.
7. Get Involved. Get out and get involved with the people you love and people you would love to meet. You could even volunteer in your community, or go and make a difference with a group or organization that shares your values.
8. Focus on the positive. Be grateful - consciously look around you and appreciate the people in your life and the abundance that surrounds you. NEVER compare your self to anyone else.
Man, writing that was good for my mojo!
