July 2, 2009

3 Steps to Soulmate Success - 8th July 2009

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At the 3 Steps to Soulmate Success seminar Rick and Jo will be taking you through the 3 Steps to Attracting your Soulmate and the deadliest Dating Trap of all, the “mini-marriage” and how you can avoid it.  If you are committed to bringing love and joy to your life once and for all with proven Soulmate Success systems… then attending 3 Steps to Soulmate Success is a MUST!  To find out more or register go to:

http://www.SoulmateSuccessSeminar.com

How can I tell if a man is ready to commit…?

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Ask Rick and Jo 


Dear Rick and Jo,

comittment phobHow can I tell if a man is ready to commit to being in a relationship with me? Men don’t seem to express a desire to commit and I don’t want to put them off by expressing what I am looking for.   How can I figure out who is ready for commitment and who isn’t?

Therese from Tasmania

Dear Therese,

We have a mantra “Who you’re looking for is looking for you.”  If you come from that belief, you will feel completely free asking the questions that will determine whether this one is THE one.  However there are some steps to take before you will be able to truly believe.

1. Engage in some rigorous self discovery. Become aware of your limiting beliefs and what they are causing in your life. Create beliefs that will attract what you want.

2. Create your future.  Become clear about the kind of relationship you want, the relationship that resonates with your life purpose and values.

3. Assume Responsibility. Become The Chooser - confidently sort out men who are not a match for your relationship vision so that you are available and ready for the man who wants a committed relationship.

You can fast-track your results by working with a RCI coach who will guide and support you on your journey.

Rick and Jo Harrison
Licensed Coaches with Relationship Coaching Institute

What is YOUR single biggest most burning question you have about how to attract your soulmate? This newsletter is your access to having Rick and Jo answer your question!  Just email your question to info at YourSoulmateSuccess.com

Managing Your Inner Critic - 3rd July 2009

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Sue PapadoulisI’m being Interviewed tomorrow (Friday) at 2pm by Sue from Home Biz Chicks about Managing Your Inner Critic.

If you would like to listen in, click HERE.

On the call you will learn:

•    The origins and workings of the Inner Critic and the Inner Voice;
•    Why one will never lie to you, while the other will always mislead you;
•    How you can easily identify which one is in charge of the conversation;
•    Why habitual behaviour is a key to retraining the Inner Critic, eliminating your limiting beliefs and accelerating the Law of Attraction;
•    The 5 step process for controlling your internal conversations and your life.

If you would like to attend go to:

http://www.homebizchicks.com/public/department53.cfm

and register - you’ll also receive a free copy of the special report “How to Generate Free Publicity for Your Home Based Business” valued at $99.You’ll also receive a free subscription to the e-newsletter, Smart Biz Chicks, packed with information and advice on how to start and grow a successful home-based business.

I want my Mojo back!

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by Rick Harrison

Earlier this week, we were feeling flat and uninspired.  We looked at what was going on, why were we “down in the dumps” and we realised that we’d lost sight of our WHY and had gotten immersed in the HOW and WHAT.

Sometimes we get bogged down in the “doing” of life and our “to do” list seems to be a never-ending list of tasks for which there is just never enough time.  What is usually “play” becomes toil.  These are the steps to restoring your mojo!!!

1.  Validate your feelings. Losing our mojo happens. It doesn’t mean we are inferior beings – it just
means we’ve lost connection with our WHY.

Why?2.  Get in touch with your WHY again.  Why do you want a soulmate relationship? What will that mean for you and your family?  Allow yourself to feel the emotion of having a delicious relationship.

3.  Get Real. It’s easy to get resigned and settle for life how it is.  In order to change our condition, we must first acknowledge our reality. Tell the truth to yourself about where you’re at where you want to be.  Then take baby steps towards where you want to be and feel the mojo surging back into you.

Faith4.  Have Faith and Be patient. Everyone’s future is uncertain, yet the ones who succeed are the ones who hold their faith.  The pitfall is to become impatient. When this happens, our emotions get in the way of our common sense and we can self-sabotage by not doing what we know to do. Hold strong by believing “who you’re looking for is looking for you”.

5.  Write down the beliefs, the things deep in your heart that you know to be true and which gives you support when you’ve lost your mojo and are feeling flat and uninspired.
We believe that our greatest work is still ahead of us. We know that we will always be together and our families will always love us.  We believe these things to be true and they provide a resurgence for our mojo when we feel our souls begin to grow tired and falter.

6.  Let go of Resisting what you don’t like.  Say yes to what is and let go of trying to control your life and make the most of what life throws at you.

7.  Get Involved. Get out and get involved with the people you love and people you would love to meet.  You could even volunteer in your community, or go and make a difference with a group or organization that shares your values.

Gratitude8.  Focus on the positive. Be grateful - consciously look around you and appreciate the people in your life and the abundance that surrounds you. NEVER compare your self to anyone else.

Man, writing that was good for my mojo!