Soulmate Success

by Rick & Jo Harrison

While the financial crisis is stripping value from company stocks around the world, a similar crisis has been apparent in relationship trends, where there are more singles as a percentage of total population than ever before.

Singles confidence is at an all time low.  The ratio of marriages to total population is declining and the ratio of singles (both male and female) to total population is increasing.

The same trend has hit love stocks in North America and Great Britain as divorce rates continue to rise and singles become increasingly wary of commitment!

According to John M. Gottman, (Professor Emeritus, Department of Psychology, University of Washington), “69% of conflict between couples results from perpetual problems related to unrealised dreams or expectations.”

It seems that one of the major causes of relationship failure is a lack of awareness and poor choices when single. People are selecting their partners for short-lived reasons… just like stock market speculators.  Their reasons for ‘investing’ in a potential mate lack sound ‘fundamental analysis’. So they fall for one or more of up to 14 dating traps that end up in break up! A bit like watching your dud shares plummet in value.

As discussed in their free Secrets to Soulmate Success video e-course, by investing in a potential partner whose values and vision resonate with yours, you can have a “blue chip” relationship.

It’s smart to do lots of research, what we call recreational dating, before you put your emotional capital into a relationship.  Know clearly what you are looking for, in terms of values above all else, so you don’t waste time and emotional investment on people who are not a soul match for you. Market conditions are not a reason to make a poor choice… there is too much pressure to invest in someone before you are ready.  So be a savvy relationship investor - take your time and have fun while you do your research!

It’s that old Law of Attraction again! You need to be the type of person you want to attract. When someone is clear about who they are, what their vision and life purpose is and what their core values are - they automatically attract someone who resonates with all that.  So while you are learning how to identify a great relationship investment, you also need to make sure that you are working on yourself so that you too represent great value.

Still searching for your soulmate?  Go to www.SecretsToSoulmateSuccess.com to receive your FREE CD and video e-Course valued at $297.

by Rick & Jo Harrison

There are more Melbourne women ’single and 30-something’ than ever*. Contrary to popular belief it is NOT due to a “Man Drought”.

A a generation of women are self-sabotaging their love-life because of 5 critical mistakes that either get them into relationships that do not last or prevent them from attracting many men at all.

“Rick and I have both experienced failed relationships and we are both fortunate and blessed to have found our soulmate in each other,” says Jo.

“That’s why we trained as soulmate specialists and founded Soulmate Success to help other people stop making the same mistakes we made.”

The top 5 mistakes the Harrisons believe are being made by women are:

Mistake # 1 - They become exclusive and committed too early in the dating phase. (Sometimes referred to as the “mini-marriage” or “the one-night stand that never left!”) “This is the deadliest mistake because they suffer trying to make it work before the inevitable end”, Rick said.

Mistake # 2 - They believe there is a limited supply of possible partners, and have to settle for whoever they can get, which is usually someone they don’t truly want to spend the rest of their life with.

Mistake # 3 - Women listen to poor advice on how to play the relationship ‘game’ and so attract men who are playing ‘games’ and are not a good match for them.

Mistake # 4 - Many women have a list of what they want in a partner, but the list is missing the key qualifier for a lasting relationship … the Deal-Breakers. So they waste time forgiving, being nice and giving second chances until they realise he’s not the one … and another one bites the dust.

Mistake # 5 - They have hidden Limiting Beliefs which are not ‘Soulmate-Attractive’.  Unconsciously they believe they don’t deserve to find love, or think they are unattractive, or believe there are no good men left. They come across as ‘needy’ - a big turn-off for men.

Still searching for your soulmate?  Go to www.SecretsToSoulmateSuccess.com to receive your FREE CD and video e-Course valued at $297.